A boomer finds solutions to life challenges in clever quotes

We don’t get too philosophical too much here at BoomerCafé, but with The Greatest Generation fading away, if any other generation has been around long enough to have a philosophy about life, and death, it’s ours. Which is what this piece by contributor Gary Carter of Asheville, North Carolina, is about. He says, Truth Often Lurks In Quotes.

Quotations: we find them at odd times in odd places, and are struck by a truth or an insight. Or we seek them out to help us express ourselves better by using someone else’s words when failed by our own. They can be found in handy collections for easy access, or happened upon and saved — torn from a page or jotted in a notebook, even copied and pasted in electronic form. Chances are pretty good that most baby boomers, having lived all these years, have a few tucked away somewhere.


Somehow, quotations help us make sense of things, or offer a better way to explain something, or add something concrete to an idea felt, or imagined. I have an ever-expanding collection that resides in a laptop file labeled simply, “Quotes.”

Sometimes I scan them with a purpose or need in mind. Other times, I just wander through thecollection at random to see what prods me, stops me, forces me somewhere, maybe some place I don’t really want to go. Like this quote, for example, from The Dying Animal by Phillip Roth, that seems to set the tone for this particular perusal:

“Think of old age this way: it’s just an everyday fact that one’s life is at stake. One cannot evade knowing what shortly awaits one. The silence that will surround one forever. Otherwise it’s all the same. Otherwise one is immortal for as long as one lives.”

For baby boomers, there’s probably more time spent contemplating such truths than we like to admit. Typically, you can depend on Woody Allen to have a dissenting viewpoint from Roth: “I don’t want to achieve immortality through my work. I want to achieve it through not dying.”

Gary Carter, writer.

Gary Carter, writer.

In his memoir, Off to the Side, author and poet Jim Harrison sees things a bit differently: “Life is so short you want to remember all of it, bad and good. It moves so quickly you easily forget that it is utterly unforgiving.”

Novelist and fellow boomer John Dufresne keeps it simple, but drives home the point of how quickly life can indeed slip away from us, when he writes in Love Warps the Mind a Little: “You lose a wallet or keys or something and you notice in a second. But your life can go missing and you don’t even know it.”

The great English essayist William Hazlitt wondered why we should even worry about ceasing to exist: “Perhaps the best cure for the fear of death is to reflect that life has a beginning as well as an end. There was a time when we were not: this gives us no concern—why then should it trouble us that a time will come when we shall cease to be?

And, veering away from the too serious before things get out of hand, you can always count on the incomparable Kurt Vonnegut to brighten the picture, observing, “Be patient. Your future will soon come to you and lie down at your feet like a dog who knows and loves you no matter what you are.


At last also are the calls to embrace life as it comes and make the most of it. Kafka put it this way: “Youth is happy because it has the ability to see beauty. Anyone who keeps the ability to see beauty never grows old.” And George Sand brings exquisite, simple splendor to the act of living, admonishing us, “Try to keep your soul young and quivering right up to old age.

Only Buddha can follow on that, offering these peaceful, calming words: “We are shaped by our thoughts; we become what we think. When the wind is pure, joy follows like a shadow that never leaves.”

To that, fellow baby boomers, amen.

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  1. Quotes can succinctly capture the essence of a grand idea. Thanks.

    My friend thought this was funny and worth keeping:

    “By the time I find myself, I will forget who I am.”

    —Ria Stone

  2. Yes, very thought provoking. I’m also an avid collector of quotes; some are deep, a lot are positive and a great many are humorous. If I use one I also like to write something meaningful around it.

    I like the way you have composed the feature, and that in turn has sent me off to look at my own work with a different eye!

    Thanks for this lovely contribution.

  3. Just for the record, my primary thought, and original title, was that truths often lurk in other people’s words. But I certainly can’t claim to find “solutions for life’s challenges in clever quotes,” as the headline implies.

    Nope, still seeking those solutions.

    Thanks for the responses.

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