Men Choosing Not to be Sexual
By Cafe on Jan 7, 2008 in Baby Boomer, Dr. Bob Berkowitz | comments(4)
BoomerCafé is all about baby boomers with active lifestyles. But as active as baby boomers are, some are hiding something. Something about sex. Relationship expert Dr. Bob Berkowitz and his wife, Susan Yager-Berkowitz, have done an unprecedented survey which reveals a secret truth, which is implicit in the name of their book: “He’s Just Not Up For It Anymore.” They have allowed us to run this excerpt from the book’s introduction. Why don’t men want sex anymore? Read on….
You know, it was hard on my ego and self- esteem when he didn’t want me sexually, because I didn’t grow up knowing there were men out there like that. (Female, 40)
It was strange to me how my interest in my wife died. I considered her an attractive woman, but she was always very angry. Her anger grew and grew until it became like she was actually seething whenever she looked at me. Even during all that time (twenty years) I was still attracted to her. But one day it was like a switch flipped off and I realized that I could no longer torture myself by being attracted to a woman who obviously hated me. (Man, 50s)
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