Newfoundland for Baby Boomers

August 09, 2008 | Cafe | Comments 15

One beauty for many boomers these days is time. Time to travel, time to explore. Jane Paznik-Bondarin lives in New York City, so she constantly feels the pull. One of her favorite places is off the beaten track, and she shares it with us at BoomerCafé. It’s about Mrs. Paine, who exemplifies Newfoundland.

The house stood at the top of the T as we drove into Rocky Harbor from Norris Point. A typical Newfoundland house — painted frame, two stories — but with new touches: wide, long windows on the bay side that we could see when we drove onto a gravel path alongside the house, and a Jacuzzi, abutting the house next door but seemingly inaccessible to it. Didn’t make sense.

“Paid the owner to build so close,” Andrew said. “It’s Newfoundland, it’s family, or they share the Jacuzzi.”

I didn’t know which, and it bothered me. One of those silly things you just want to know which assumes more importance than it deserves because you don’t know. Each day as we drove from our commodious B&B, Sugar Hill Inn, into Rocky Harbor on our way to see the fjords in Gros Morne National Park, to catch the ferry to Woody Point, or to buy cookies or eat dinner at Java Jack’s, I looked at the house.

One morning, there was no car in the driveway. “Stop the car, ” I said. “There’s no one home. I’ll go see if the Jacuzzi opens to the second house.” He thought I was nuts. As I was walking up the driveway, an elderly lady stepped out of the house. To cover my embarrassment at having been caught snooping, I smiled and said, “I’m so sorry. I don’t mean to invade your privacy, but I like this house so much, I wanted to see it closer than I can from the road.”

“It’s my son’s,” she said brightly. “Would you like to see it?” And before I could respond, she’d reached back into her open doorway and grabbed a set of keys from a wall hook. I motioned to Andrew to join me, and we toured the house, our hostess supplying commentary on the building of the house, herself, and her family.

Her name is Mrs. Paine. I don’t know how old she is; not young. Her three grown sons have moved to Nova Scotia. She’s a widow, lonely. She’s a native Newfoundlander, but not of the west part of the province, to which she moved more than fifty years ago to marry Mr. Paine, whose “people” come from here and meet each year for a reunion. She has no people here. We stayed as long as seemed polite, thanked her profusely, and took our leave. “When you come back to Newfoundland,” she said in an almost impenetrable accent I’ve come to associate with older Newfoundlanders, “come to visit me.” I said I would.

This is Newfoundland. As much as the gaily-hued houses in St. John’s, icebergs and puffins in a bay called Witless, outport towns with houses perched on rock, and red and white lighthouses dotting the coves, this is Newfoundland: the friendliest people on the planet. We read it in guidebooks. We experience it in the welcoming but never obsequious treatment in hotels and restaurants, in the greetings of people who pass us on the street, who look up from their gardening or laundry to say “welcome,” or who take time to tour us through their art studios even though it is clear we are visiting, not purchasing. The city of Gander is where residents turned out to take travelers stranded on 9/11 into their homes. I know people who landed there that day; they will never forget the hospitality and caring. In Newfoundland, it seems to be an everyday thing, which explains a lot about my friend Eileen, whose “people” hail from there.

Guides to Newfoundland divide the island — called “The Rock” by Canadians — into four regions: the Avalon Peninsula, Eastern, Central, and Western regions. We started out thinking that next time we’d fly into Deer Lake instead of St. John’s and spend our time only in the west, but in each region we visited, we discovered we’d only seen … well, the tip of the iceberg.

For icebergs, go to Trinity in late June, where a berg is as likely to sit outside your kitchen window as it is to break up into bergy bits before your eyes. In fact, go to Trinity for any reason. It is a handsome, sweet town that will steal your heart. It was the location for the Canadian film Random Passage — the film set is a tourist attraction — and The Shipping News (although Annie Proulx set the book in L’Anse Aux Meadows, in the far north west of the island). Make sure to stay at Artisan Inn or one of the other properties owned or managed by Tinika Gow, who will direct you on scenic walks, and dine at her delightful restaurant and gallery. Explore the greenery of Terra Nova National Park. As you’re heading east, stop in Harbour Grace to see the airport from which Amelia Earhart began her ultimately ill-fated transatlantic crossing.

If you spend a few days in St. John’s, consider the charming Bluestone Inn, where Neil will suggest just the right places to dine, including the inventive Restaurant 21, just down the block. Visit The Rooms, a well-designed art gallery, museum, and archives, all dedicated to the history of Newfoundland and Labrador. Walk along Duckworth and Water Streets and explore the new galleries, among them St. Michael’s Printshop or The Leyton Gallery. You may have to drive back west to Port au Choix to see Ben Ploughman’s folk art, but it’s worth the drive.

People have left The Rock. It’s not an easy life. They leave because of cold winters that last into a short summer, rain, the need to re-invent themselves because of the death of the fishing industry. But people are returning, too. A fierce love of place pervades a substantial literature, and everyone you meet. “Do you like our island?” everyone asks, “and will you return?” Yes, and yes.

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Newfoundland for Baby Boomers

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